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![]() By: Kristi Lees Look out world here she comes! A small girl from a small town with big aspirations Fawnia Mondey has been quietly achieving for the last several years. This 5 foot 4 blonde haired blue eyed bombshell has tried a bit of everything, from performances as an exotic dancer, a well known fitness icon, even acting and modeling with appearances in various fitness magazine as well as several shoots for playboy. She has a long list of titles behind her (including Miss Nude BC) and has even branched out to market her own fitness and exotic dancing videos. Fawnia has been an inspiration to me for a few years now both as a dancer and as a fitness guru but most importantly as a person. Fawnia has this wonderful ability to make you feel at ease and make you feel counted as an individual not just a fan asking questions. She is down to earth and has maintained centered throughout her career. This girl has her feet firmly on the ground and knows where she is headed.
An Average Training Day May Be:
After 3rd or 4th meal (about 6-8 hours later): weights and 30 - 45 min cardio. These days, while I still have time before contest preparation I train once a day, just after breakfast to make sure I don't put it off. Working out before noon sets the mood for my day and I make healthier meal choices when I feel energized from the gym. My Training Is:
Day 2: Chest Day 3: Biceps Day 4: Triceps Day 5: Shoulders Rest or repeat I do a min of 20 cardio each day. Sometimes I will add Triceps to my chest day. I may make day 4 a rest day.
Starting out with weights in 1995 (on a serious level) I did: Day 1: Chest & Triceps Day 2: Back & Biceps Day 3: Legs & Shoulders * This the same split I feature in my workout DVD, "Making Fitness Fun".
For the most part I eat slow burning carbs: oatmeal (organic is best though I eat quick cook most of the time), yams/sweet potatoes and brown rice. For protein anything goes and I always add a little Udos, Flax Oil or have a little avocado with my meals. Fibrous carbs such as green beans, spinach, peppers, asparagus and broccoli I eat as much of these as possible with my last four meals. Organic peanut butter and almond butter are treats I have once a day, and in my coffee/tea I enjoy Stevia or Sweet-n-Up. Water is with me at all times and I try to drink about 3 liters a day. Pre-contest I am drinking about 6 liters a day (1 ? gallons).
For Christmas I asked my grandmother for a pair of 5 pound dumbbells. For up to an hour at a time I would make up exercises at home and train. At that time I was 13. When I left my career as an exotic dancer, I knew that I had to join a gym to ensure that I could maintain my new weight and shape. I was 140lbs at the age of 19. At just 20 years of age, I left the stage and weighed about 108. Weight training added a few pounds to my proportionate frame but it did more than that. Weight training gave me shape, sped up my metabolism and improved my self confidence. This was enough to keep me going.
My shows as an exotic dancer were very theatrical; re-enacting Spiderman, and turning from a cop into a robber or an angel into a devil. I felt a creative void when I left the stage and this I filled by taking acting classes for film & television. For about a year I studied with David Simmonds at the Screen Actors Studio in Victoria, BC. I landed roles in The Outer Limits, The X-Files, and appeared on Millennium five times. In 2000 and 2001 played the lead in two films produced in the Czech Republic.
I did many photo shoots before and after the contest including a cover for Muscle Mag International in Mar 2003. After that, I started turning Robert Kennedy's head. Robert is in charge of several top publications, so when he phoned me in Oct 2004 to say how impressed with the images I have been creating as of late I was on cloud 9. I can now say that I am an accomplished fitness model.
Do they not stop and think that there are those of us who have broken hearts, or are dealing with death in the family or drug addictions? I am not sure where I would be without Michelle in my life. I am in complete aw that she admires my strength, which I often do not see.
Left: Fawnia & Valentina with a fan at the 2003 Olympia. Right: Fawnia at the 2004 Arnold with the BB.com gang.
In May or June I will do the BC's again and if I place in the top 2 in those shows I will be at the Canadian Nationals a second time.
www.Fawnia.com will have info on my new show as the information is permitted to be released. Believe me though, you'll enjoy watching this show!
After that I had lunch with my graphic designer Chuck at Re-Bar (Organic Restaurant) where I enjoyed buckwheat pancakes and a wheat grass drink. Started on this interview about an hour ago and took a 5 min break to eat some chocolate cake (yes I'm human) and some green tea. My last meal tonight will be a salad with lettuce, tuna, sweet potato, and green beans plus my oil and vinegar dressing. I will do email for at least 3 - 4 more hours, and finish the night be reading more of 'The Notebook', but Nicholas Sparks. Last week I read his book 'The Wedding.' It was simply amazing!
Life is about interacting with others, with nature, and letting those experiences shape who I am. Please don't think I have this down to a science, as I think I just learned this answer today. I regret a lot of what I did this year, and am doing my best to learn from my experiences, to shape who I am into a stronger person. One that is far stronger then I was at this time last year.
I am not ashamed of being a dancer and feel that the natural art of the body is something to be celebrated, not shunned. It's important to take into account that the dancer is of legal age and is enjoying her work, not using it as a crutch from being abused in the past or a way to support unhealthy drug or drinking related habits. At the time I worked as an exotic dancer I didn't even drink coffee or pop let alone drink alcohol or sleep with costumers. I was very straight edged, and put my heart and soul into my shows (which were commented on being more like theatrical concerts than a strip tease).
I performed for 18 minutes (about 4 songs) and gave my heart and soul into each show. I created theatrical shows complete with theme outfits, fire (going off with electricity and gun powder), and of course the best pole moves I could. Entering and winning 6 out of 7 contests earned me the reputation of being one of Canada's top Exotic Dancers. Since 1996 I have been teaching pole work, and exotic dancing (dance, lap and floor moves) not just to dancers. These days through my website www.exoticdancelessons.com my main students are aged between 30-65 and are learning not just for entertaining their partners at home but to boost their self confidence. To release their inner diva which I know we all have. Men are also learning and returning the favor with Male Exotic Dancing, volume 6. Exotic dancing has helped me loose weight, travel to various places in Canada and work in Europe at the age 19 and later branch into www.exoticdancelessons.com which is one of original instructional exotic dance sites to be online.
At the time I won I had been dancing for just a year (09/94 - 09/95) with no formal training and being formerly 'overweight' or what society rewards as average. I was then known as The Best Dancer and was most in demand by the agents and clubs. I could ask for three times my show price, and work when and where I wanted.
For her kind spirit, I love my mother more then anything. She loves those around her unconditionally and in spite of her disabilities she can laugh and thank god for what she has. My mother doesn't dwell on what she doesn't have and I have learned many lessons from that. Geoff, my partner of seven years is another dear person who I must thank for believing in me. Geoff was my guide in fitness and nutrition. In fact I didn't even know that orange juice had carbohydrates when I met him! I believe that Geoff and I are soul mates and are meant to be partners for life. My quest for the next year is to win his love back.
Next, I would like to marry in the next three years and start a family.
A quote another friend introduced to me today is, "Live with the law of detachment." This means to live life with goals in mind but to not be so attached to the outcome that you lose sight of the process and what is going on around you. Some people may want to make a large sum of money, but lose sight of their relationships and themselves.
Next I would let them know that working in the industry is not always a huge money maker. Unless you are one of the top on your class (if you compete in the pro ranks) you may not make any money at all, except for working trade shows such as the Olympia, Arnold and the GNC Show of Strength. If being in the industry makes you happy then you are in the right place. Think about what you are doing each day; you, the person reading this now. Are you happy with your career choice? What about your hobby? Do you have any hobbies? Being in the industry for 90% of us is a hobby and we are here because we are enjoying ourselves. Happiness is key.
Doing interviews like these help me look at who I am, and I thank you for this experience. Photo Credit:
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